Don't force your man

i know you love him a lots

but will you tied him up too tight??

this is the question you have to ask yourself

everytime i heard you say that you argued with him

he don't understand you

and everytime you asked him not to do this

but he did it

then after that he come and apologize to you

and you forgive him

what i want to say is

this is a bad cycle in a relationship!!!

you shouldn't tell him what to do

and what he should do

just let him do his decisions!!!

don't try to control him

i feel that he's fed up

he is a guy who needs lots of freedom in his life

the more you control him

more far he will stay away from u!!!

hmmm

got one thing i really don't understand about girl

why must control your man then only you will think that he's yours?

don't both of you already in a relationship??

if he care about you

he won't do anything that will hurt you and your feelings

he won't keep apologize to you

and just want your forgiveness

if he really cares you

he won't leave you away

and no matter how far both of you be apart

his heart will still belongs to you

because he is the one who really belongs to you

if he doesn't

no matter how tight you tied him up

and put him beside you

he will still find ways to get off

if he is the one who belongs to you

in his eyes

you're the perfect one

he won't compare you with the other girls

he won't have any "heart attack" to a girl

because you're the best for him

if he is the one who belongs to you

he will find you no matter how late and how tire he are

because he want to meet you up and hear you

because he miss you

do you still remember that night?

you overnight at my house

and you cried?

both of you are force to break up because of yours family

and what i told you?

and what you told yourself?

how he react?

his heart is belongs to you!!!

when you are emo that time

he used his patient to calm you down

he listen to you carefully

i know he is mature enough to handle everythings

just i feel that you are the problem

i'm your friend

that't why i have to tell you

i don't agree with what you have done to him

i feel that he lost his freedom!!!

it's unfair to him!!!

for me

once you are in a relationship

i feel that no ones should lost their freedom

or have any changes in his/her life

 the only changes we have are

we have someone else to love and cares

we have our responsible to protect and respect the one we love

that's all!!!

and if you feel that he's wrong

just try to tell him your feeling

i believe he will have a just nice decision for it

don't be so selfish

for sure i don't hope that you will mess up your relationship with him

both of you did a lots of hard work

then only you two get together

why wanna break up or emo just a little thing?

is that worth??

please la

be mature ok?

i know you love him

and he loves you too

both of you loves each other so much

nothing can change your heart to him and vice versa

just give him some time and space to do his own things

you are in a relationship with him

not a "controller" for him

you are his girlfriend

as i know

he call you as wife is it?

hmmm

so

you should be happy of what he done to you!!!!!!!!!

what i can do and talk to you

i did and told

hope that you can understand it

nothing is impossible

if you want to change your mind

and you can do it!!!

best wishes for both of you

ok??